Pam’s Pictorama Post: Today is one of those day in the life posts as yesterday was devoted in large part to eyeglass repair and rejuvenation in the form of a trip downtown yesterday.
I have worn eyeglasses since about the time I started office work a few years after college, probably when I was about 24 or 25. Computers, or really the forerunners of office personal computers, were just slipping into the not-for-profit world where we were certainly a beat behind on such developments. (I remember attempting to use carbon paper as there were so few copy machines in the museum. Yikes! I made a mess of that!) Whether it was true or not, the common wisdom at the time was to blame this sort of need for glasses on computer use although how it differed from hours at a typewriter I am not entirely sure.
I come from a family where I was the only one of the kids who didn’t need specs when little. My older sister Loren got them in second grade after it became evident she couldn’t read the blackboard at all. Her eyes turned out to be very bad and plagued her a bit all her life with a need for thick glasses until she was old enough for contacts. Loren always said she couldn’t so much as get out of bed without glasses or her contacts. (She was very athletic and I can remember her saying when she was swimming she couldn’t really see a thing had no idea where the end of the pool was.)

I know my brother also got glasses in grade school, but I don’t remember at what age exactly. (Edward if you’re there, sorry for this omission. ) My father wore them and from photos I would say started wearing glasses as a young adult, he was nearsighted.
Mom and I did not wear glasses however, at least until I reached the point mentioned above. (She of course eventually fell prey to readers which she bought in the drugstore and kept strewn around the house. Kim does this as well although he was a prescription wearer for distance at some point, his eyes oddly evolved into readers only for the most part.) Whereas nascent computer work may not have caused my initial need for glasses, it did seem to mean that I had to move to progressive lenses after a decade or so of wearing them. I tried contact lenses (hard and soft) briefly but decided they weren’t for me.
My eye doc recommended being thoughtful about where I had the progressive lenses made and to talk to folks and find someone who would really work to find the best fit for how I use my glasses daily. After one or two other attempts I stumbled on Anthony Aiden Opticians in the East Village by accident fairly early on. Anthony himself was there the day I looked at frames and asked about progressive lenses and what he might recommend. It was clear that he knew what he was doing and I ordered up my first pair, the cost of which would take my breath away. However, he and his team are good and as a result I go all the way to the East Village ongoing for my eyeglass needs. (I have experimented with other less expensive places and for me the results were a hot mess.)

Like many things there seemed to be a period in the early part of the pandemic when they were closed, but I visited by appointment in late ’20, mask and all. They were my inaugural trip down to the part of the city after being largely isolated uptown for months. Zoom wrecked havoc somewhat on my prescription. For some reason it can be hard for me to find the right focus on it and of course one needs to look at a variety of sizes of things on Zoom.
So visits to Eighth Street have become a routine part of our lives. Kim brings a book to read while I do my eyeglass business. It is followed, generally, by a bulk buy of coffee from the place next door (Puerto Rico Import) and maybe Blick for Kim to get art supplies. Lunch is usually pierogi at a Polish restaurant, although yesterday it was messy veggie burgers at H&M Dairy.


Running turned out to be hard on eyeglasses (I run in essentially distance only sunglasses which means I can’t read in them, a fair trade off.) and repairs to those for missing screws and other damage is not infrequent, no less than quarterly. In recent decades I have lost two pairs of sunglasses and one pair of regular ones with no idea in the least how I did it.

I buy expensive frames and really have from the beginning figuring if I am going to wear it on my face every day I should like it a lot. Until recent years however I really only owned one pair at a time and then eventually a pair of sunglasses and regular ones. My prescription changes have slowed and having an extra pair has become a reality.
For some reason this summer in New Jersey I beat the heck out of all my glasses. About ten days ago I fell running while wearing my everyday glasses because it was overcast. (When I mentioned this at the store yesterday the two guys just looked at me in amazement and one guy said, You wore your progressives running? Lesson learned. I need to find some old frames and get distance glasses without dark lenses for running in low light.) Meanwhile, a little used pair that was disused due to discomfort was pressed into service and the whole shebang was brought in for a tune up of one kind or another yesterday which was a fiesta of screw tightening and replacement.
Sadly the favorite glasses, which smacked me in the face when I fell, didn’t just need tightening, there was a small break in the frames. Luckily the frames were still stocked and on sale and they popped the undamaged lenses out and into the new frames and they are on my face now as I type.
Meanwhile, I am very grateful for their attentive and always unfailingly cheerful help and service there. They will be seeing me again soon if I find a pair of glasses and have those distance runners made.




